<?xml version='1.0' encoding='UTF-8'?><?xml-stylesheet href="http://www.blogger.com/styles/atom.css" type="text/css"?><feed xmlns='http://www.w3.org/2005/Atom' xmlns:openSearch='http://a9.com/-/spec/opensearchrss/1.0/' xmlns:georss='http://www.georss.org/georss' xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' xmlns:thr='http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0'><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8436634113550081668</id><updated>2011-08-01T13:07:42.834-05:00</updated><category term='acting training'/><category term='body psychotherapy'/><category term='self awareness'/><category term='presence'/><title type='text'>Getting to know all about "You"</title><subtitle type='html'>This blog invites us to look at who we THINK we are and explore moving beyond that identification into a more spacious and compassionate place. We celebrate our differences, revel in our similarities and bridge the illusion of separation into the reality of Oneness.
Using awareness tools: the enneagram, body awareness,  connection with nature, nurturing creativity, designing ritual, and opening up to spirituality we stop hiding from ourselves and others, and rejoice in our humanity.</subtitle><link rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#feed' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://gettingtoknowallaboutyou.blogspot.com/feeds/posts/default'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/8436634113550081668/posts/default?max-results=100'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://gettingtoknowallaboutyou.blogspot.com/'/><link rel='hub' href='http://pubsubhubbub.appspot.com/'/><author><name>Ruthie</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/17786320496063296671</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><generator version='7.00' uri='http://www.blogger.com'>Blogger</generator><openSearch:totalResults>1</openSearch:totalResults><openSearch:startIndex>1</openSearch:startIndex><openSearch:itemsPerPage>100</openSearch:itemsPerPage><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8436634113550081668.post-1914675012175544141</id><published>2010-03-17T20:03:00.002-05:00</published><updated>2010-03-18T15:34:26.308-05:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='presence'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='acting training'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='self awareness'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='body psychotherapy'/><title type='text'>Presence</title><content type='html'>&lt;div class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;"&gt;The first step in knowing ourselves is taking stock of the data available to us. What we say and think about ourselves, what others notice about us, and how we interact with the world, is all valuable material. What arises in our body, the quality of those sensations, is a great source of information about ourselves, but something we rarely pay attention to unless we are ill. Witnessing what we are feeling and allowing a space for that also tells us about how we are interpreting events and the assumptions we are making about those events.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;"&gt;Paying attention to our thoughts instead of just reacting from them also gives us alot of data about who we think we are. &amp;nbsp;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;b&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;"&gt;Being intentionally “present” means standing fully in the moment, as it is, with awareness. Our attention expands to taking an inventory of our physical sensations and body position, our emotional status, and the observation of our thinking patterns. We are a vessel that holds awareness without judgment or preference. We see what is. Out of this “presence” all else can flow. Try practicing “presence” when you are walking, while you are in meetings, when you are eating, and even when you are on your e-mails, and see how much more of yourself engages in these activities. How can you observe your body, heart, and thoughts while you are "doing". &amp;nbsp;Through this quiet observation, how does "doing" become "being".&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;"&gt;Please go to my &lt;a href="http://www.ruthlandis.com/"&gt;website&lt;/a&gt;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;and look around, or &lt;a href="http://www.ruthlandis.com/ruthbook.html"&gt;click here&lt;/a&gt; to read an excerpt from my upcoming book.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/8436634113550081668-1914675012175544141?l=gettingtoknowallaboutyou.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='related' href='http://www.ruthlandis.com' title='Presence'/><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://gettingtoknowallaboutyou.blogspot.com/feeds/1914675012175544141/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://gettingtoknowallaboutyou.blogspot.com/2010/03/presence.html#comment-form' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/8436634113550081668/posts/default/1914675012175544141'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/8436634113550081668/posts/default/1914675012175544141'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://gettingtoknowallaboutyou.blogspot.com/2010/03/presence.html' title='Presence'/><author><name>Ruthie</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/17786320496063296671</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry></feed>
